What can you do if you are in an abusive situation?

Call the Heartly House Hotline. It’s available 24-hours a day, 7 days a week. A trained advocate is available to talk with you about your options, and provide support and information.

Call 301-662-8800; TTY 301-662-1565, to find out about:

• Developing a safety plan
• Crisis sheltering
• Safe pets programs
• The cycle of violence
• Counseling services
• Your legal options
• Referrals to other supportive community services

Domestic violence affects everyone. In the work place, it results in increased absenteeism and lowered productivity. Family members and friends bear the burden of fear, pain, and anger for the victims they love. Domestic violence also wreaks havoc in the lives of children.

How can you help? If someone you know is being abused:

• Let them know you care. Talking may help sort out some of the confusion brought about by the abuse.
• Maintain an open, non-judgmental attitude.
• Avoid confrontation with your friend’s abuser. Letting the abuser know that you are aware of their behavior could endanger your friend.
• Use caution. There may be physical danger involved; so carefully consider the entire situation before offering your home to your friend.
• Call the police if you know that an abusive incident is occurring.
• Encourage your friend to call Heartly House for help and information.
• You may also call Heartly House to learn more about domestic violence and receive support. Services are available to any Frederick County resident who has been affected by domestic violence (family members, friends, etc.)