it’s not her fault. it’s yours. It’s in your hands to end sexual violence. We’re over it. What exactly are we “over?” We’re over: the idea that sexual assault is about sex. We’re over: looking the other way when we see someone being harassed at work. We’re over: dismissing rape jokes and using “boys will be boys” as an excuse for unacceptable behavior. We’re over: asking, “what was she wearing?” and “were they drunk?” We’re over: thinking that only women are the victims of sexual violence. We’re over: protecting the reputations of perpetrators. We’re over: racism, homophobia, transphobia, sexism, and ableism. We’re over: catcalling and revenge porn. We’re over: thinking that attention or accepting a drink equals consent. What we’ll never be over: Believing victims. Protecting victims. Supporting victims. Defending victims. Resources: Defining Rape Culture Click to download Bystander Intervention Click to download